Preparing Your Child for Preschool

Let’s recall our preschool days when our parents used to leave us at the school and we would cry at the sight of them going! Naturally, there was a concoction of feelings that we underwent- anxiety, excitement, fear, hope. The same feelings are felt by kids as they step into a new environment of a preschool. Some groundwork for attending preschool can begin in advance at home so that the kid is well prepared to take on the new phase of life with zeal.

Teach kids to be independent and social

As kids move out of the home environment parents or nanny would no longer be available to help them at every step. Hence, it is significant that the child is trained to stay independent. This can be done by setting daily routines for the child and giving him/her opportunity to do simple tasks like moving objects from one place to another, placing toys in the basket, brushing, eating by self. Parents should expose children to other members of the society by setting routines like social outings, evening park visits etc. which can help the child develop social skills. Encourage the child to interact with peers and seniors and help them build simple small conversations.

Being responsible

Parents can create an opportunity for children to be responsible by giving them tasks, or objects like plants or pets to take care of. As they become the caregiver to that plant/pet, they also learn what responsibility is. 

Developing critical thinking

Instead of presenting a solution to every single problem that your child faces, let him/her look for solutions to a problem. You may begin with simple activities at home like playing obstacle games, hide and seek with objects, puzzle solving etc. Sesame Street pre primary schools in Pune and best school in Meerut spread across India emphasize on developing critical thinking among children. All educators at Sesame Street Preschools are encouraged to teach children about finding solutions to their problems. While the educators help the child, the pride of finding a solution by them excites the child and encourages them to think critically.

Familiarize children with good and bad touch

It is must to educate your children about good and bad touch. Parents can begin with teaching kids to say “No” or “Stop”. They must ask permission before touching or embracing anyone and, similarly others should also ask their permission. Never force a child to hug or kiss, instead offer alternatives like high five, blow a kiss. Children should be encouraged to bathe themselves to develop a sense of ownership and pride in their own body.

Set the expectations of the child

Every child is anxious about starting preschool. Parents should talk to children about what to expect when they get to school — where they'll be going, what they'll be doing, and who will be in class with them. Before school begins, visit the classroom together at least once, preferably when other children and teacher(s) are there. Take your child out for shopping for school items like bag, water bottle, lunch-box and uniform. This will generate excitement to join the school.

It is customary for children to experience separation anxiety during the initial weeks at the best play school in Delhi and play school in south Delhi. Be prepared for a few tears. With time your child will get accustomed to the routine and will soon start looking forward to spending quality time at the school.